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It’s Okay to be Me July 16, 2008

Filed under: Inspirational — xvmercy @ 4:55 am

The first time I read the words below, it spoke to my heart. Loving ones self  and making positive changes is what life is all about, at least I think it is. I find every day that it is never to late to change and break free from a faulty belief system. I wish good  Blessings to all and may you find your path to change what ever that may be.

~peace

Tracy

 

 

I am the only me in all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine. Because I alone chose it-I own everything about me. My body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or to myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears-I own all my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts. I know there are aspects that I do not know-but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and for ways to find out more about me. However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me-if later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me-I own me, and therefore I can engineer me. I am me and I am okay! To laugh is to risk appearing a fool. To weep is to risk appearing sentimental. To reach out for another is to risk involvement. To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self. To place your ideas, your dreams before the crowd is to risk their loss. To love is to risk not being loved in return. To live is to risk dying. To hope is to risk despair. To try is to risk failure. But the risk must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, and is nothing. He/She may avoid suffering and sorrow, but she/he simply cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, live. Chained by his/her certitudes, she/he is a slave, he/she has forfeited her/his freedom. Only a person who risks. is free. ~Author Unknown

 

Catching up July 2, 2008

Filed under: Family — xvmercy @ 11:08 am
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Wow it has been a long time since I last posted in this blog. So many things have happened I could not possibly write them all down.  so, here is just a brief list of what I have been doing.

 

* New dog, he is a  AKC yellow lab named Murphy.  He is almost 6 months old, smart, cute, can be stubborn, likes to take long walks down the road and poop in the neighbors yard. I did not think I was going to keep him but he is still here…..for now,  provided I can find something to remove all the hair from his body and make him smell more human.

* Working the fireworks tent for long sweaty hours earning money towards next years 10 day  Scout camp.

* I have decided to also attend next years 10 day Scout camp to obtain the honorary claws which means working even more sweaty hours at the fireworks tent.

*Eating to much Taco bell which sits next to the fireworks tent

* Girls night out to celebrate birthdays in June. Lots of laughs mixed with lots of drinks = Great memories

* Mutilated by Chiggers from my yard while gathering the daily mail.

* watching the pool turn green because I am working to many sweaty hours at the firworks tent

that’s it for a while..  Life is GRAND..

 

 

I found the following on the web and wanted to share it… Peace and blessings

The World is your Mirror

 

 

 

The good you find in others, is in you too.

The faults you find in others, are your faults as well.

After all, to recognize something you must know it.

The possibilities you see in others, are possible for you as well.

The beauty you see around you, is your beauty.

The world around you is a reflection, a mirror showing you the person you are.

To change your world, you must change yourself.

To blame and complain will only make matters worse.

Whatever you care about, is your responsibility.

What you see in others, shows you yourself.

See the best in others, and you will be your best.

Give to others, and you give to yourself.

Appreciate beauty, and you will be beautiful.

Admire creativity, and you will be creative.

Love, and you will be loved.

Seek to understand, and you will be understood.

Listen, and your voice will be heard.

Teach, and you will learn.